Fashion Tips, Quakers, Mutual Aid - All Right Here

Hey, have I mentioned my two extremely cute granddaughters? Olivia (2) and Sissy (almost 1!) are running around and playing with the few old toys I held on to from their parents and aunts and uncles, and I'll have you know that once the baby of the family, ALWAYS the baby of the family, because my Susie came home from college for Christmas break, saw Sissy holding the little pink bear we've had for ages, and immediately said, "Hey, that's MINE!"

Almost as cute as the grandbaby who was holding it

Just FYI, it is way easier to read Goodnight, Moon 6 times in a row when you aren't chronically sleep deprived, who knew? Kudos to other grandparents who watch their grandchildren full time, though - I can make it about 2 hours and I'm dying, I seem to have lost my childrearing stamina.

Or maybe I just used it up? 6 kids will do that to you

I still enjoy working at Trader Joe's, even though it is killing me because it turns out I am old and not quite as fit as I thought I was. It's the local store, which means I see a lot of people that I haven't run into since the kids grew up, and it's always fun to say hi and catch up (or, in some cases, to scan frantically through my fading memory banks searching for someone's name). We change tasks in the store every hour, which keeps it all from becoming mind-numbingly boring, and we're encouraged to talk to people, which is interesting unless too many weirdos show up in a row, in which case I contemplate quitting, because OMG there are so many of them out there, WHY

Also, I can't quit, because the money lets me buy fun clogs, after all these years of being sensible:

I LOVE THEM

See those flare jeans? I'd been wanting this style for a while, because all the cool kids at work had them, while I was still wearing my fussy early 2020s jeggings. Unfortunately, it's really hard to find this type of pant if you're short -- you can't cuff them, and if you hem them you lose the flare. So in June I steeled myself to stare straight at the prospect of going to 10 different stores and trying on all the jeans and maybe ordering more jeans online and having to return all of them - I looked that monster straight in the face and said YES, NOW IS THE TIME, LET'S GO SHOPPING

But then I had a brainstorm while perusing sale items online and spotting photos of - what's this? FLARE CAPRIS? You know, those pants that come down to the top of a normal person's calf? Hmmmm, why not try it?

Reader, I'm calling it the Miracle of the Flare Jeans, and I didn't even pray to any saints first. Those silly capris fit perfectly on my midget legs, and did I mention they were on sale?

I'm a fashion icon now, look at me - only don't, because Larry still doesn't allow personal photos here

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Anna (aka treasured eldest daughter) got married in November! 

(Really, I should have led with this, but here we are) 

Not only that, but her spouse happens to be a standup comic, which...I don't know...you know how the stereotype is that Jewish mothers are excited if their daughters marry doctors? That's how I feel about Anna's wife, it's just so cool. 

Anna and her spouse (who needs a blog name, I dunno, um, Sally) learned that the fastest and cheapest way to get married in their city is to have a Quaker wedding, because no officiant is needed. Time was of the essence, you see, since Sally had a day job with actual health insurance and Anna's ACA premiums were about to go up dramatically, and I KNOW, IT'S SO ROMANTIC *swoon* 

So all they had to do was pay $100 and the courthouse handed them the Quaker wedding document (which, unlike a Jewish ketubah, is NOT written in Hebrew, but I guess it still counts) and they just had to go have whatever sort of ceremony they wanted, with two witnesses to sign the not-ketubah, and ta-da, they'd be married.

I really have only the utmost respect for anyone who makes getting married NOT complicated and expensive, thank you, Quakers!

They refused to dress like this for the wedding, party poopers

Anna and Sally invited us and the other parents and a sibling or two and some friends to witness their Jewish Catholic lesbian Quaker wedding at an Italian restaurant near them in Philly. I felt right at home with the in-laws, because they were Italian and I grew up Italian-adjacent in northern NJ, and OMG they just kept ordering more food and passing it around the table, and Sally's mom at one point was trying to find out if Susie would be interested in dating Sally's younger brother.

I was eating dinner with a bunch of people straight out of Central Casting, and I was thrilled.

Trying to make conversation, I said to her mother, "The girls pulled this off really fast!" and she said to me, "I know! When Sally called me about the date, I said, 'Honey, why the rush? Did you get her pregnant?!?"

In case anyone was wondering where Sally gets her sense of humor from...

Anyway, the day after Anna got on the health insurance, Sally got laid off, so they split up 

KIDDING

No, so now they are both without insurance, because the ACA rates are simply insane and Anna's job doesn't offer it and we can't have universal health insurance like a normal civilized country, but I guess they can just live on love, that's fine, everything is fine.

We had everyone here (including 3 - count them, THREE - kids-in-law) for Thanksgiving, and it was lovely, thank you very much. Sally tried to get away with saying she was useless in the kitchen, but we made her rice 10 pounds of potatoes anyway, which was a fitting welcome to our family holidays, I'm thinking. 

Christmas was a much smaller affair, just the three youngest grown kids and one kid-in-law and little Sissy, and I pretty much worked my butt off without Anna here (she was at her in-laws), but at least I didn't get deathly sick on Christmas Eve like last year, so I call that a win. 

Brian gave me a jigsaw puzzle of a New Yorker cover for Christmas, even though I haven't done a puzzle in years, so I decided to get back into it and, people, now I know WHY I haven't done a puzzle in years, I get OBSESSED.

This was MADDENING

I was late starting my January socks because I couldn't tear myself away from that stupid puzzle, but here they are, finally started (I know, you were worried):

Nice bright colors for winter, I need that

We have snow coming and  it will be utter chaos with everyone buying milk and eggs and bread, because that is how we celebrate our rare snowfalls in this neck of the woods. We will probably end up with maybe 6 inches of snow and be left staring at ridiculous amounts of leftover cinnamon roll and French toast ingredients in our kitchens, but we will not learn, we will simply do it all over again the next time. It's sort of an endearing habit, IMO, because people are silly and I love that about them.

I also love people who are brave and care about their neighbors and the rule of law, so kudos to Minneapolis, for showing the rest of us how it should be done! If anyone cares to help these people help their neighbors, this article has a list of mutual aid funds that you can contribute to. Do it! You'll sleep better. 

Any knitters here? You can buy this pattern off Ravelry, the proceeds all go to mutual aid in the Twin Cities. You'll feel good about helping, AND you'll have a hat, can't beat that!

Until next time, stay safe, stay warm, and stay away from jigsaw puzzles, they'll throw off your knitting mojo like you wouldn't believe...

More Travels With Old People

 Hi! Still here, still coping with the phenomenon that is 2025

No, really, it's FINE that a grown child of mine who has worked every day of their adult life can no longer afford health insurance. Totally normal and sensible and definitely NOT a sign of a society on the brink of collapse, no sireebob, we're good!

And you wonder why you haven't heard from me, hmmm? I feel slightly insane

BUT life goes on, even in a fascist hellscape, so let's talk about, I dunno, my trip to the Olympic Peninsula last July. As previously reported, David was not allowed to take us up any mountains, so instead we went to the beach, which involved a mile hike through woods and over some hills, because apparently there is no such thing as a simple stroll in the Pacific Northwest. The beach had humongous rocks scattered everywhere, as if a species of giants lived out there, a species completely unlike us ordinary mortals from the East Coast, with our cute little sand dunes on our accessible shorelines.

A tad intimidating, is what I'm saying

Oh, and our first night staying in Port Angeles, we were suddenly under a tsunami warning, so I texted David (who hadn't joined us yet), saying, "Ha, ha, tsunami warning, I'm sure nothing to worry about, right?" and he texted back, "So, how high is your Airbnb above sea level?" which was not exactly the reassuring response I had expected.

We don't have tsunami warnings at home -- no giant rocks, no giant waves, everything is human-sized.

We took a ferry one day to Victoria, which was very exciting, because I had never ever been to Canada, and man, they have real bike lanes and everything up there, and also universal health care, so I spent the ensuing months trying to convince Anna and her partner to move north, but no dice

Even the crossing signal has a bike on it, SO CUTE

We visited our not-so-newly retired friends for a few days while Susie returned to Seattle with David and climbed Mt. St. Helens with him, and no, I'm not sorry we missed out on that experience. Instead, we sat on our friends' deck looking out over Puget Sound and marveled at the lack of humidity and mosquitoes, just like last year, it was lovely. 

No mosquitoes, NONE

We also went on a private tour of a submarine museum, AND we revisited the marvelous hotdog place, the one with curly fries and like 20 hotdog varieties on the menu. It was a very good time, and our friends didn't make us hike one bit.

Vacation dining at its best, IMO

I don't remember August. Like, literally, no memory whatsoever. I worked, I guess? Helped a bit with the grandbabies? I dunno.

In September, Larry and I took a trip (drum roll please) to EUROPE (the Baltic states, specifically). Larry had been to Europe many times on business, but I had never before set foot on the continent, so it was an all-new experience for me. We chose an organized tour, so if anything went wrong, we could blame Road Scholar and not each other (marriage hack!).

My takeaways:

1. Flying reminds me of surgery: I might die, but I have to do it.

2. KLM has very nice cheese snacks for breakfast, highly recommend

Unexpectedly delicious

3. The Baltic states have wonderful public bathrooms, individual little rooms, complete with real doors and their own little sinks, and maybe we should do that here and everyone can quit fussing about who is going in which bathroom, that would be nice.

4. I got to touch walls that had been standing since like the 1300s or something, which is sort of mindblowing:

These are VERY OLD

5. Seeing things in person is way more interesting than seeing them on YouTube. Maybe I should have known that, but I didn't.

6. There are people who travel A LOT, I felt like a rube compared to everyone else on the trip.

7. The Tallinn (Estonia) airport is impossibly cute:

Like landing at an IKEA, right?

8. I don't like strange (to me) food, so I subsisted on potatoes and yogurt and Magnum bars, I know, it's pathetic. Essentially, Larry was traveling with a 5-year-old.

9. We saw a beautiful church in Lithuania that had been designed and built by Italians, so essentially it was like going to Rome but cheaper (travel hack!)

Definitely NOT like an IKEA

10. Our country currently looks like a total basket case when you're sitting in Europe. The news coming from the other side of the Atlantic at that point was INSANE, to the point of embarrassing. All of us on the trip assiduously avoided talking US politics the entire time, until the last night at dinner, when the woman next to me said, "So, if you WERE going to try to claim asylum over here, which country would you pick?" and the entire table immediately chimed in with their answers, so obviously everyone had been thinking about it.

And there's a lot more to talk about, but I'm going to wrap this up, because it's late and this is long enough. Thanks for letting me talk at you and post vacation photos (I mean, if there is anyone left reading this - I know posting twice a year is not a good way to keep people engaged, but hey, 2025, you know? It's been nuts)

A Caveat, Plus MORE CHAIRS

 Oh, hi!

Really? After a 6-month absence, that's how I'm starting out?

Give me this, it's been a whopper of a 6-month period, okay? And I'll confess, part of my absence has been because it's been hard for me to balance giving cheerful little accounts of our family's day-to-day doings while also experiencing (along with everyone else) the societal/political turmoil and chaos that is affecting a lot of families, including ours. It just felt a little tone deaf, you know?

Flower box arrangement by Susie, who is glad she's in college right now and not looking for a job in this market

Still, I don't want to lose this record of our daily lives, either. I love looking back and remembering all the things I've jotted down over the past (OMG) 18 years. How do I keep that while not seeming oblivious to everything (waves vaguely) out there?

What did the 1930's Germans do about their blogs, I wonder? LOL, ROTFL, see it's just not funny, ugh

So I am back with my stupid, inconsequential stories, because skipping them isn't going to help anything or anyone. Hopefully they'll provide some respite from the horror, I dunno. 

Am I mentioning this just so readers won't think I'm totally shallow and annoying? Probably.

Back to our regularly scheduled programming!

If you recall, last time we spoke, Larry and I were suffering a deficit of dining chairs (2 tables, 6 chairs), with Thanksgiving becoming a BYOChair event. Now, if you will believe it, we are the somewhat flummoxed owners of 16 (COUNT THEM SIXTEEN) dining chairs. 

It started in February, when I took matters into my own hands to procure some used kitchen chairs that provided my long-desired pop of color:

Can't really explain the teddy bear as a centerpiece, oh well

They go well with the dilapidated chrome padded chairs and are a cheerful powder blue, which makes me happy but probably bothers Larry no end (remember, he doesn't believe in fun-colored furniture). We moved the 4 black kitchen chairs to the dining room, which really didn't look too bad with the wood table, but really, I just never wanted to think about chairs again. Ever. Larry also seemed to be happy not discussing this stupid topic anymore. 

Total number of chairs? 10, a somewhat reasonable number -- not quite enough for holiday dinners, but hey, it was only February, we had time.

Fast forward 5 months (and really, where DOES the time go?!?): I came home from work (more on that later) last Sunday to find what we can only describe as The Miracle of the Chairs in my dining room:

Free table, $30 chairs, that only took 8 months

That's right, folks - Larry finally found the long-sought-after but discontinued West Elm chairs on Marketplace at a low, low price and brought them home. He is very happy with himself, even though we now own too many chairs, and I can tell he is eyeing my pretty blue ones as the ones to go.

SIXTEEN CHAIRS, that's ridiculous

In January I started a new job:

Susie worked at our local Trader Joe's for two years before selfishly going off to college and living her own life, and I really missed that 20% discount we used to get. Also? I was sitting around all day scrolling the internet (not good) and waxing maudlin while gazing at pictures of my kids when they were little (downright pathetic, okay?). NOW, I work about 30 hours a week and get a ton more done around the house, because I have less time to do it in, and there's a psychological term for that but I've forgotten it.

Also, I get paid. I like having money, because I get to spend it on my grandkids.

Was that plural? Why, yes, yes it was - Rachel (RACHEL) gave birth in February to a very cute baby girl and OMG I had completely forgotten what a trainwreck those first few months could be. But we're finally at the point where she (the baby, not Rachel) does all the cute baby stuff, giggling and blowing raspberries and snuggling, and seriously, I have no memories of my babies before 5 months, apparently. NONE. 

  

Our empty nest has a bunch of this stuff in it again

Rachel and the baby stayed with us for a few weeks in June while her husband was away on TDY and Larry and I helped out (minimally) with the baby and were COMPLETELY EXHAUSTED. I have no idea how we did all that SIX TIMES.

This cutie joins her 21-month-old cousin, who has adorable little pigtails on top of her head (that droop in the humidity, and really, aren't we all just like those pigtails?) and I have never so badly wanted to post people photos on this blog, but Larry's rule holds firm (also, my kids wouldn't let me, either, oh well). 

Let's start calling the older grandbaby Olivia and her little cousin can be Sissy, since I can't just say "the grandbaby" anymore. Wow, I haven't had to make up blog names in a very long time, that's weird.

This isn't the beach, it's THE SHORE, because New Jersey

Earlier in June, Larry and I rented a beach house for a week on LBI and several adult children consented to join us, including Rachel and spouse and newest grandbaby, and it was actually pleasant because I wasn't responsible for anyone's happiness but my own (which, after all those years of vacationing/camping with kids, still feels quite novel and refreshing). Also, adult children on budgets naturally tend to appreciate a free vacation more than dependent children/teens do, so that's nice

Obligatory sunset-over-the-bay photo

Next week? We are flying to the Seattle area and visiting Olympic National Park. This is happening because during one of our heatwaves in June, I pretty much snapped and dropped a boatload of money on airline tickets and an Airbnb, and I'm glad I did, because it gave me something to look forward to through all the subsequent heatwaves in July. 

I cannot wait to leave this weather behind for a week, I feel as though I am living in the armpit of hell. Predicted weather for our vacation is 50s and 60s, so I guess I'll need to bring a parka or something, which is fine by me.

David is meeting us at the park, but we will NOT be doing the mountains with him, having learned our lesson last year. We're hitting the beach trails instead, and - considering the West is definitely another planet - I'm sure we'll find those challenging enough. Wish me luck!

In Which I Say "Chairs" Way Too Much

 Ah, let us chat once more before we close the books on this stupidly crazy year! Let's see, there was a plane trip, and COVID, and lots of failed job interviews, and new-boobs surgery and recovery, my discovery of the West, a typically humid summer, a trip to Acadia (wait, did Larry and I actually travel 3 times this year?), Rachel's wedding (still can't quite believe that one), and the advent of our empty nest.

Folks, it's been a lot, really. And to usher out the year in the appropriate fashion, some rogue virus decided to try to finish me off, so I ended up in bed on Christmas Eve, shivering and ache-y and coughing, while the merriment continued unabated below. A shout out to my girls, who stepped up and made sure breakfast was prepped and dishes were cleaned, etc., all while I lay upstairs and prayed I wouldn't die on Christmas Day, because wouldn't that be sort of a bummer?

What Santa brought me

I'm still coughing and trying to make sure this thing doesn't turn into pneumonia, but I'm doing better than I was. I'm disappointed, though, because the week between Christmas and New Year's is supposed to be fun, and all I have done is lie around and take Mucinex and Sudafed and cough a lot. No cold weather hikes, no trips to the movie theater, NOTHING - just me and my bag of cough drops watching Nobody Wants This on Netflix and scrolling through Instagram. Oh, and I read a book, so I guess my brain isn't totally gone yet, yay.

Also, the house is full of holiday cookies and candy and I don't even feel like eating them. If that's not alarming, I don't know what is.

*coughing break*

Halloween happened, do cast your eyes upon my Candy Charcuterie creation:

In November we found a beautiful (and free) dining room table on Buy Nothing, so we gave away our pockmarked old IKEA dining table and its five remaining rickety chairs to someone else and I would be lying if I said I didn't feel a pang of regret watching those decrepit but well-loved pieces of furniture being carried out my front door. 

So many Thanksgivings and Christmases and birthdays celebrated at that table! I had to bid a fond farewell to the firmly entrenched family ritual of checking the chairs before everyone sat down - you know, to make sure the rungs were firmly seated and wouldn't give way? It was a treasured tradition, and honestly I sort of missed it this past Thanksgiving.

Of course, that left us down 5 chairs, and we were already short 4 chairs in the kitchen. You see, we had given away our other IKEA set (a black round table with self-storing leaf and six black chairs) to Theo and his wife last June, because I was tired of all that black in the kitchen and a neighbor had offered me her round white table instead. So we have the new (used) white table in the kitchen (with a leaf we have to lug upstairs from the guest room closet), along with 2 chairs that I got for free that are a style I adore (chrome with padded seats), only the padding is ripped on the sides.

I LOVE it, but yeah, the stuffing is coming out

Larry was probably wondering at this point why I had traded down on the kitchen furniture, and I really don't have an answer for that. Except I was tired of all the black, did I mention that?

Anywhoo, there we were, with 2 tables and 2 chairs, which wasn't an ideal situation, especially 2 weeks before Thanksgiving. So we started looking for chairs: Craigslist, Marketplace, all the online stores. But here's the problem - it turns out that Larry and I have very differing expectations for chairs. To sum it up, he likes ugly ones, and I don't. I could go into more detail, but really, that's it. 

So, in the interests of preserving our marriage, we narrowed our search to chairs we could both tolerate (in the meantime borrowing a couple of chairs from Rachel to tide us over, chairs I found for her on Buy Nothing last year that just happen to go PERFECTLY with my new dining room table, but I digress). We did manage to find four bucket chairs locally, used, that we can tolerate for both the kitchen and the dining room:

And yes, they ARE black. I really wanted bucket chairs that would provide a fun pop of color, but it turns out Larry isn't a fun pop of color type of guy. Who knew?

Feeling sort of desperate at this point, we decided to bite the bullet, as it were, and buy brand new the same chairs Rachel has, but it turned out West Elm had stopped selling them. So we bought something somewhat similar from Wayfair and they arrived and neither of us really liked them and we sent those back (because when we're paying full price for chairs, we are way pickier than when they are free). Hey, at least we agreed on something, right?

What I am trying to say is that this stupid chair search CONSUMED us for two solid weeks (again, Thanksgiving was approaching and WE NEEDED CHAIRS), and we got sort of nowhere. We ended up borrowing the rest of Rachel's chairs and telling our neighbors that Thanksgiving would be a BYOChair event this year. They totally rolled with it, God bless them.

We were having 16 people for Thanksgiving, and I did my typical slow-roll holiday prep for the holiday, so things could be nice and relaxed and we could all enjoy ourselves, even if we didn't have anywhere to sit. I took it one step further this year by buying PRECUT bread cubes at Whole Foods, so prepping the stuffing was a breeze, comparatively speaking. 

Best thing since, uh, sliced bread 

Things were looking good: I got the desserts and cranberry sauce done on Tuesday (no apple(sauce) pie this year), and I rose bright and early Wednesday to tackle the stuffing, secure in the knowledge that only a natural disaster could wreck our holiday at this point. Planning is important. Planning prevents chaos. I'm a planner, and I had this down, chairs or no chairs.

So tell me, dear reader, does a broken dishwasher count as a natural disaster? Because that's right, THE DAY BEFORE THANKSGIVING, my dishwasher decided to stop draining. Larry - who's usually the "call the repairman" type - spent 2 hours watching YouTube videos in an attempt to fix it himself, because we both knew we weren't going to be seeing a repairman until after the holiday. But the dishwasher refused to yield to Larry's desperate ministrations, and we had to face the fact that our nice relaxed holiday was going to be replaced with one where I was haranguing the kids to wash dishes and not use any extra forks. Not quite the laidback vibe I was looking for, you know?

As a result, I'm not sure our neighbors will want to come back next year, even though I DID return their chairs. We've still got a couple of Rachel's, though. You know, just until we find something else. Yeah, that's it...

It's Finally Fall, Y'All

I do not understand how we can be closing in on the END of 2024. I mean, what the heck?

Gratuitous Acadia picture, why not?

July and August here were typically humid and hot and full of mosquitoes and OMG someone shoot me if I don't come up with a plan to get out of here for at least 3 weeks next summer, okay? There's nothing like having to put on mosquito repellent as soon as you get up because a mosquito that sneaked into the house last night is still there somewhere and IT WILL FIND YOU while you try to eat breakfast and make some tea and just generally start your day.

September was less humid but still filled with mosquitoes, but that didn't stop us from holding a lovely and very lowkey outdoor wedding (YES A WEDDING) for Rachel, who - if you will just glance over at that sidebar there - is 22 now and legally allowed to get married, although I know you all will agree with me that that is just ridiculous because wasn't she just 9 or so? 

Wedding cake, yum

Luckily, she grew into a young woman with a very sensible take on weddings - she opted to rent a local park pavilion and have food catered by a BBQ truck owner and order a reasonably priced dress online. Susie did the table decorations (flowers from Trader Joe's artfully arranged in mason jars) and created a playlist, and we dug up a working bluetooth speaker and ordered tablecloths/paper plates etc. from Amazon. Even more astonishing than the fact that Rachel has become a married woman is that absolutely EVERYTHING went as planned and the weather was lovely and all the siblings managed to show up for the occasion.

Seriously, where is the blog material in THAT?

Before the wedding Larry and I headed up to Acadia National Park and camped for a week on that lovely island or peninsula or whatever it is and hiked and biked (which was hell, because I hadn't really biked for two years, what with surgeries and such) and ate doughnuts and generally acted like the carefree empty nesters that we now are.

Another Acadia view, we had to work for this one

Empty nesters?  Why, yes, yes we are - Susie (THE BABY) transferred to a state university this past August and left Larry and I sitting around our (now) reasonably spacious townhouse wondering what the hell happened to the last 32 years or so. Folks, it is simply shocking. Also? A relief, because honestly we are feeling quite old and tired at this point. 

The house being full for the wedding mid-September, the delightful empty-nestedness of our situation did not hit us until a few weeks ago. And then I got to go cat sit for Brian in Philly, which was also delightful, because I essentially had a free Airbnb complete with HBO Max; and because I hadn't paid any money for my lodgings, I didn't feel as if I had to make the most of my time by seeing all the local sights. 

Instead, I spent a few of the most deliciously carefree days I have had in over 3 decades, hanging out with a cat and knitting and (finally) watching Hacks, all while NOT feeling like there was something else I needed to be doing at the moment. Is this how everyone else feels on regular vacations? I'm jealous.

Everyone meet Truffle, my grandkitty

I also met up with an old college friend who lives in Philly and whom I hadn't seen in 36 years. Now, this could have gone sort of badly, so I braced myself for the awkwardness of meeting up with someone who could essentially have become a perfect stranger. But instead? It was a perfect afternoon, one where it felt that no time at all had passed since 1988; and it was made even better when he pulled out a photo album full of pictures of us and our friends from our college days.

People, I have absolutely zero pictures of myself between the ages of 15 and 27. Nothing. Zip. Nada. I didn't own a camera, most of my friends didn't, either, and also, in case you don't remember, people back then just didn't take a heck of a lot of pictures, not unless they were on vacation or at a special event. Seeing these photos was like meeting an older version of myself, someone I had pretty much forgotten over the ensuing decades. 

Naturally, I scanned in some of the photos and sent them to the kids with a "See? I had friends and we all had FUN" comment; but truth to tell, our version of fun looks rather antiquated compared to what my concert-going, air-travel-savvy offspring are doing today. I mean, there were pictures of us dressed up for Halloween while serving food at the university dining hall (I had cat ears) and pictures of a birthday party we held for my friend one year, complete with a homemade cake and balloons and not much else. In my kids' eyes, we might as well have been having a taffy pull or riding horse-drawn sleighs, I guess.

What my kids picture my youthful fun to be like

But it was OUR fun and I am so glad to remember it, because sometimes I get too focused on the immediate present (essentially jobless, empty nest, getting older - have I ever mentioned I'm sort of negative?) instead of pulling back and getting a bit more perspective on my life as a whole. 

(Anyone else mentally flashing to Clarence the angel saying, "You really did have a wonderful life, George..."? No, just me? Okay, I'm a bit obsessed with that movie, just carry on)

So yes, this month I went to a new city where I enjoyed a smashing do-nothing vacation AND reclaimed my youth. Pretty good for just the price of a train ride, isn't it?